A couple keys to a healthy relationship are communicating and listening. What do you know; the same could apply in a cheating relationship. I advise you listen and learn where your spouse likes to hang out, where their friends hang out, and who their friends are. Make sure you go out on those outings with friends. Get acquainted with their friends and remember how they look, because chances are you will run into them out and about. So with that said, don’t go to those places they like to hang out at. You should want to be different anyway. If you live in Chicago go, go hang out in Galena Illinois. O.k., I admit that is a bit extreme, but do but you get where I am coming from? Don’t go where the friends are known to kick it. For example don’t go taking your side piece to John Barleycorn in Wrigleyville if you know for a fact that your spouse’s friends kick it in Wrigleyville every weekend. Get a hotel room or if you insist on going out, let it at least be at night. Maybe the nighttime darkness will conceal some of your cheating ways.