It isn’t fair. It isn’t smart. I like to think that I personally will not let one individual dictate how to live my life. You have control over your life and your decisions and I feel that you should stand up to the BS and not allow it. Because you will always find yourself in misery right along with the shallow minded people you attempt to please.
To the superficial individuals, CHILL… They may not be able to afford the lifestyle that you can afford. It’s amazing how some people would get in to debt or sacrifice just for keeping up with the latest trends or eating at the fanciest restaurants just to fit in or keep up. Also, I think it’s important to note that even though some people may afford to do so, some people choose not to. Everyone has a choice to decide what important to them and fitting in may not matter. Don’t be so judgmental. You can’t live your life through other people. Don’t even attempt to do so. What someone else is doing should not concern you. Just live your life. Don’t meddle in other people life. If they are happy, let them be.