Then you have situations when fathers and mothers are took away from their children and significant other’s. Leaving that significant other to live in the constant state of grief, while raising their child or children. Who reminds them so much of their deceased partner. The emotional and psychological toll that murder has on people is catastrophic. It isn’t something that you can “just get over” you will never “get over it” you can only learn to cope and take steps to continue living your life. But the pain will always be there.