For us guys it’s a bragging right. It is like being Jordan with six rings when you have a high body count. It is like you are a true man when you are able to get with a lot of women. I can guarantee in men’s circle we aren’t downing each other when comparing how many women we have slept with, in fact if your body count is low, you may get talked about. And after you get talked about, your guys would be glad to assist you with increasing your body count. I am not sure how it goes in women’s circle. I have witnessed women call other women a hoe or thot when they sleep around. I asked a couple of my male friends do a woman’s body count matter to them. One of them said that it does, but at the same time we have to understand that this is the real world and people get “smashed” in the real world. Another one said that it really doesn’t matter, as long as he doesn’t know the dudes. I personally feel both of their point of views especially the part about knowing the dudes. I hate to say it, but if I know that you got down with any of my guys or anyone I knew in the neighborhood, I can’t go. It’s harsh, but real. I personally rather not know your count. Me knowing your count may change my opinion of you. I feel that some guys will agree with me. I learned years ago about asking questions. I asked a question and I did not like the answer and since then, I realized maybe its best not to let curiosity get the best of me and just keep some things in the unknown.